I wish i actually wore the fashion taste i have
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Tips For The Classy Hoe
Invest in Prada sunglasses,
A nice brown purse, Luis Vuitton if you can afford it
Quality lingerie,
A good sunhat,
Expensive jewelry (pearl and diamond earrings are a must)
And a wide selection of fancy shoesRegularly get your hair and nails done,
Style your hair simply and classically every day and keep your nails long and manicured
Stick with nudes and light pinks for every day wear, red for more formal eventsInvest in voice, piano, and ballet lessons
Learn French
Read all the literature and poetry you can, keep up on politics and current events
Be opinionated and informed, but never stubborn
Talk smoothly and gently, but never apologetically
Go out for brunch
Take walks in the park with or without your lover on Sundays
Set aside time at least once a week to go to an art gallery, museum, or theatre
Drink fine wine and be knowledgeable of it
Life is what you make it.
(via happyhealthyhoetips)
I wish I could afford the fashion taste I have
I wish I had the body for the fashion taste I have
all of the above
**Sugar baby style guide**
Style is more important than owning luxurious high end clothing or accessories. I swear I see so many girls pairing designer items that clash horribly. You can slap a label on a pile of trash and people will buy it now a days.
My ideology is less is more. I also always dress very modestly when I meet a POT. Don’t let them see all the goodies. Does he wish you wore a tight dress? Great daddy take me shopping then 😏💸💗
The style that is most flattering and will never fail is the femme fatale. Both in makeup and fashion.
I like to keep my casual looks glowy and effortless and when I doll up I bring the drama.
Think feminine to the max. Lipstick, hair curled, classic cat eye.
Play around with colors and variations to make it your own and always remember it’s better to look more natural than have a cake face on.
Same goes with style, simplicity is chic. Your look should be effortless and you should feel comfortable in what you are wearing. Can’t walk in heels? Don’t wear them. Hate turtle necks? Girl don’t wear them! It shows when you don’t own your style 100%.
Fit is the most important thing. Dress in a way that emphasizes the right parts of your body and dress for your body type. Ill fitting items are not flattering.
Color is also important! Personally I stick to neutrals with a few pops of color in my shoes or accessories. I have a capsule wardrobe so it’s important to me that my items mix and match well. It’s also good to wear black and other neutrals because they look incredibly chic and are very sliming.
Some of my style icons are : Blake lively, Angelina Jolie, Olivia Palermo, Kim k, Audrey Hepburn and basically every off duty model on insta.
Pick and choose what works for you!
These are examples of what I personally would wear:
Casual coffee date outfit:
Pants: Black ripped skinny jeans
Shoes: black stilettos or nice Sandals or boots
Top: blouse, off shoulder t shirt, high quality tank top or over sized sweater.
Accesories: small gold rose jewelry, gold aviators and an over sized black leather tote or small hand bag.
Dinner date:
(Weather permitting and depending what restaurant)
Pants: Leather leggings
Top: high low black tunic top
Shoes: nude heels
Or
Black dress (it has to look elegant, it’s not the time to look like you are going clubbing..)
Shoes:Pointed heels
Small clutch
Trench coat
Or
Light flowy dress with a small pattern in a muted color
Nude heels
A small handbag
Or
Tight patterned mini Skirt with a tucked in embroidered cami or blouse
Shoes: wedges or heels
Accessories : statement earrings and a clutch
Shopping:
Jeans: ripped boyfriend jeans or dark denim skinny jeans
Top: white t shirt (fit is important)
Gold chain necklace or small detail necklace
Flats or heels
Rock your favorite handbag and shades
Some lower end cute brands or places to find items that look high end:
J crew, GAP, express, target!, New York and company, Bebe, guess, Zara
Investing for the long run
I know a lot of girls get big allowances 5k+ or even average ones 2-3k and just blow their allowance on stuff like bags and shoes. That stuff is fine but you are young and should really consider investing in the long run, an SD can be here today and gone tomorrow shit happens.
My SD sent me 10k of course I want to go shopping and spend that shit but I’m smart and I saved it and now I’ve invested into stocks and bonds on a low to medium risk so I’m profiting from my investment over the years. I don’t plan to touch this money and just let it sit there and generate more money. If anything happens I made sure at anytime I can also access this money.
If your thinking about doing something like this you can go into any branch you bank with and asked to speak to a “ Financial Advisor” you can also ask your SD for reassurance if he is familiar with these things. You don’t need to have 10k you could invest 2-5k and add to it as you get more money. Investing is good if just let it sit there and by the time your 40-50 it can be worth 100k + of money you have access to whenever!
LOVE YOURSELF
- Always keep sweats, comfy shoes, makeup wipes, condoms, gum, a phone charger, a hair brush, and taxi fare in your purse/car.
- Wipe front to back
- Don’t use body washes or scrubs when cleaning your downstairs area. A little water goes a long way. Make sure to wash all around the vulva and gently get around your clitoris. USING YOUR FINGERS TO WASH IS BEST. Your vagina and vulva have natural bacteria and oils that are disrupted if you use soaps and sprays/ if you wash too harshly or excessively. They are delicate little things.
- SOAPS ALSO CAUSE VAGINAL DRYNESS
- DO NOT USE DOUCHES ever ever ever!!!
- Always pee after sex to prevent UTIs
- Coconut oil can be used for just about anything: shaving cream, moisturizer, lip balm, deep conditioner, cooking, insect repellent, makeup remover.. the list goes on. Get unrefined virgin coconut oil and you’ll smell and feel great. A little goes a long way so don’t over do it.
- EXFOLIATE at least once a week. You can buy an exfoliator at any drug store but I like to make my own but DO NOT use on your lady bits.
***1/2c coffee grinds, 2-3tbsp coconut oil, sea salt
***1 1/4c white sugar, 1/2c olive oil, 3tbsp lemon juice (good for legs, DON’T USE ON FACE OR VAGINA)
- DON’T EVER use sugar on, in, or around your vagina and try to avoid using brown sugar or hard scrubs on your face
- You can experiment a lot with your bath water and different things you can put in it. I just found some really great recipes for detox baths:
***1c ground up oatmeal, 1c epsom salts, 2tbsp lavender buds.. Mix all the ingredients and add 2-3 spoonfuls to your bath water
***1c epsom salts, ½ baking soda, 10 drops of essential oils
***1-2c milk, ½ pure honey
***Add 6-10 green tea bags to your bath water
- Essential oils in a bath are great…. Just some examples and benefits: Lavender is calming, Grapefruit is energizing, Peppermint helps with fatigue, Chamomile and Rosemary help with headaches and are also calming.
- YONI OIL by Goddess Body is amazing. It helps restore the balance of your yoni aka vagina and it is also antibacterial!!! Be careful if you’re buying from a different brand because different brands have different mixtures and some aren’t very good for you.
- THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT!!!!! Oils and oil based products break down the material in condoms which causes breaks or tears!!!!! If you plan on gettin some please do not put oils around your vagina for your own safety!!!!!!
- Face masks are great for skin health and relaxation. Some of my favourite recipes are:
***1 banana and 1tbsp honey
***Plain yogurt
***1tbsp honey and 1/2tsp each of cinnamon and nutmeg (doubles as a sweetener for Chai tea)
- Shave downward or diagonally when shaving your bikini line. USE MENS’ RAZORS. Pat dry with a cold face cloth immediately after shaving to close pores and use a non-scented lotion to prevent irritation and razor bumps.
- If you have crusty ass feet exfoliate them in the bath, pat dry then use Burt’s Bees Coconut Foot Cream and put on socks right after. If they’re really bad, put this cream on before bed and sleep with socks on. This is especially good during cold weather.
- Make sure to moisturize every day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- When washing your hair; shampoo your roots and condition your tips.
- Don’t go to bed with you hair wet. Rub coconut oil into your scalp and brush it out before bed, wash in the morning.
- Massage your scalp with aloe vera for at least 30 seconds before you go to bed/ before you wash your hair to promote hair growth.
- The more you touch and pick at acne the more oily your face will get.
- Dilute 1tsp of apple cider vinegar in 1c of water for a natural facial toner.
- Try to reduce your sugar intake to prevent acne and yeast infections.
- Cranberry juice works better than pineapple juice. Drink lots of this and AT LEAST 2L of water a day to keep your body healthy.
- Green/ Black tea, fruits, veggies, yogurt, and WATER all support good vaginal health and just overall body health.
- KALE IS A GOD SEND. It tastes better than spinach and you can put it in a smoothie, mix it in with your salad, bake and season it for kale chips, or just eat it as is. It’s extremely high in iron which is good if you’re anemic and get light-headed/dizzy during your time of the month.
- Eating healthy promotes good mental health as well as physical health so keep your brain healthy too!!
If you’re needing a day to yourself, run a bath and add 1 cup of apple cider vinegar. Get a face cloth and wash yourself all over just with the bath water, especially your bizness. Apple Cider vinegar helps to restore your pH balance to keep you fresh and clean. Shave with coconut oil, exfoliate, then shave again to get all the dead skin off your legs. Scrub the dead skin off your feet and knees and elbows. Empty and rinse the tub and fill it back up with some oils or bath mixes of your choosing. Make yourself a tea or have some water near the tub. Put on a face mask and play some music or read a book or watch a show on Netflix and relax until the water is warm. Drain the water and rinse off quickly with cool water to get all the toxins and oils off your body. As soon as you get out, pat dry and lotion yourself, put on socks or slippers to keep your feet clean and then get into comfy clothes. Wear cotton underwear if you have them because they help get air to your bizzness.
Let’s talk BUDGETING
Ah yes, the least glamorous part of being a sugar baby, the fiscal responsibility. When many of us get into this lifestyle, we picture living fancy, spending without a care, and getting everything we want. Well, welcome to the real world. My allowance is $5000 a month, and if I bought all of the shoes and bags and clothes my heart desired, I could spend all that money easily. But that would be silly, because as nice as shoes and bags and clothes are, they aren’t the main reason I got into this lifestyle and they certainly won’t pay the bills if I ever get desperate.
The thing is, I suck at budgeting and spending money. I tend to use it up to quickly and then I’m desperate for money around the end of the month. But a SD can drop you on a dime, so this is obviously not ideal. So I’m implementing a strict budget for myself for the year and here’s what I’m doing so you can too.
- Set aside half of your allowances- I know, not fun at all. But it’s important to try to save at least half of your allowances. Buy a safe and stash half in there every month. For me, this is my “travel-car-life after college-rainy day” fund. I’m saving towards specific goals, but I also know that money is there should I ever need it.
- Give yourself a “weekly allowance”- Take your monthly allowance and break it up into weekly increments, but not just for the month. Try to break it up into 4 months worth of weeks. For example, when I get my $5000, $3000 will go into savings. Then, I’m breaking up the money into 13 envelopes with $125 dollars in each of them, which will last me from now until May. This is my money I can use for groceries, booze, going out with friends, basically anything I need for the week. Is $125 a week glamorous? Not really, but I can comfortably live on it and it gives me 13 weeks to find a new SD if my currant one decides to dump me for whatever reason. I will then add to each weekly folder. So next month, I’ll put another $125 in each of the remaining envelopes, and I’ll have $250 to spend every week. My weekly “goal” is $300, so the month after that I’ll add another $50 to each remaining envelope, then I’ll put $100 in 15 new envelopes to save for summer and repeat.
- Budget for Shopping and Big Purchases- If you were paying attention above, you may have realized that 3000+(13x125)=4625, not $5000. That’s because I budgeted $375 to go shopping for the month. Look, shopping is obviously super fun, but walking into a store with your full allowance in hand is just stupid and irresponsible. Bring the amount you budgeted with you and stick to it. Shopping is way more fun when you don’t have “oh no, I shouldn’t have bought all this stuff I wasted so much money” regret. I think ahead to any big purchases I need to make and plan for them. For example, I know I want to get my hair done in March, which is going to be expensive. So I budgeted extra money into March’s “spending” category for that expense.
- Roll Your Weekly Money Over- So odds are I won’t be spending my entire weekly budget every single week. What shall one do with this left over money? I’m putting into my “roll-over” envelope, which I will let accumulate. I can do whatever I want with this money. I can add it to the shopping budget for the month, use it to save up for a big purchase, or draw from it (not my savings) if I need a little extra one week.
- Get a “bonus” Sugar Daddy for Big Things- Well, technically I already have one, so this is more of a suggestion. To me, a bonus SD is a SD who you see very infrequently, generally due to travel or work. Mine gives me $1500 every time we see each other, which is rare, due to his travel for work, about every 2 months. I view this as “bonus money” and I would use it on a single, large purchase that my monthly budget doesn’t account for, such as a new laptop, phone, expensive bag, etc.
- Get you SD to Pay for as Much as Possible- Fucking duh.
On a side note…
You don’t need a noble cause to justify your hustle. If you’re hustling for a fancy dinner, enjoy it girl. If you’re hustling for a new car, drive safe babe. If you’re hustling to buy groceries, all the power to you sis. If you’re hustling for a pair of shoes, I’m sure they’ll look great on you.
You don’t need to justify your hustle to nobody.
why do you like eating a girl out?
the sounds. the way she whimpers. the way she brings it up back to my mouth when i stop. the broken moans. hearing her breathing get harder & feeling her legs shake. when she looks down at me as i look up at her and she bites her lip, my gosh. the way her back arches. the way she grinds her clit on my tongue. the death grip on my head right before she cums and her legs give out. the way she pulls me back up & tastes herself on my lips.
life tips ??
1. coat your feet in coconut oil or cocoa butter and put your socks on while you sleep. Your feet will be sooooo smooth the next morning
2. shave your legs w a men’s razor because they have more blades so you will get a closer shave
3. after shaving lather up in coconut oil (this shit is even safe for yo vagina) 10/10 would recommend
4. whitening strips and treatments are hella expensive, diy version of this is brushing w baking soda and lemon juice (it doesn’t taste that bad)
5. peppermint tea helps sooo much with bloating (and tastes bomb with some honey)
6. adding ½ cup of apple cider vinegar to your bath helps to balance your bodies ph and is really good for vaginal health
7. coffee grounds + coconut oil makes a great exfoliater
8. put vaseline and/or coconut oil on your eyebrows before you go to bed makes them so easy to style if you’re about that bomb eyebrow lifestyle
9. drinking water is the #1 best thing for you; it clears skin, boosts metabolism, and is overall really healthy for your body (esp in the summer)
10. coconut oil is really good for your hair but it can make yo roots greasy, a little bit on the ends goes a long way
11. cranberry juice, yogurt, and water works wayy better than pineapple, but fruit in general will improve yo smell/taste down there
12. if you have a car, keep a change of clothes, chapstick, gum, condoms, makeup wipes, wispies (portable toothbrushes !!!), and some spare change
13. after shaving yo vagina ( if you choose to do so) use coconut oil to avoid irritation/itchiness
14. moisturize yo booty and boobs extra bc the only thing better boobs + booty is super smooth boobs + booty
15. tea tree oil can be super helpful for pimples plus it smells super good
16. if your inner thighs chafe in the summer, put deodorant there it helps so much
17. pee after sex/masturbation ( super important to avoid UTIs)
18. getting yo eyebrows threaded is so worth it
19. treat yo self
Wearing heels
Heels are cute as fuck. They’re elegant, elongate the legs, and make the calves look hot. But they can also be a pain in the ass, especially if you have flat feet. Here’s some things I learned from experience and research
Buying Heels:
1. Please please when trying on heels make sure you walk around in them. I can’t stress this enough because I’ve bought so many heels that have turned out to be useless and much too painful. Take a lap around the store wearing both, or I even put them on and wear them while I shop around for more shoes. Because they’ll be comfortable when you wear them for a few minutes, but you need to try to see how they’ll feel after an hour or more. and make sure they fit. no wiggle room, or they’ll flop off every two seconds.
2. Honestly don’t even think about buying heels online. Unless you’ve already tried that brand and make and are ordering the same one in different colors, just don’t do it. ESPECIALLY if you have flat feet like me. I was stupid and ordered three pairs of (extremely cute) pointy toed shoes, only to find that they suck for my flat feet, some didnt even feel right, and pointy toes looks ridiculous to me. Now I’m hauling them off to payless to get half their worth after wearing them once.
3. Go for wedges or platform heels. they feel amazing and support the feet better than point toed, flat heels (if that makes sense??) will. The platform can be super tiny and it’ll make a world of difference.
3. After buying them wear them around the house on down day the entire day. See how they feel, do they hurt? are they actually too small? too big? do your feet sweat and make them slippery? if so you’ll need to make changes (ie wear heel socks, or add insoles, or grips at the bottom. Or return/exchange them.
4. Don’t be afraid to invest in insoles and I mean REALLY invest. As in I paid 20 dollars for the insoles in my running shoes and they’ve saved my shins. Same goes for heels. Don’t skimp on taking care of your feet, because it will bite you in the ass later.
**Pssst, payless’ comfort plus heels are amazing, and actually cute. I can literally wear them all day! I wear them at work, and out dancing. I can run in them, and jump.
Walking in Heels
1. Walk heel to toe. It makes a cute clicky sound, and you look so much more graceful. At the same time don’t stab your heel down like you’re digging for gold, then slam down the ball of your foot, that’ll agitated the shins and just look ugly. Find a good balance. Practice! I once read something that said to actually walk on the balls of your feet, and its worked in some heels, but only a few, heel to toe is always best.
2. Take small steps, don’t rush. nothing looks worse than someone fumbling about in heels, looking anxious and uncomfortable. But I understand, sometimes when I’m in heels and feel anxious i just try to rush to wear I can sit and not be seen, but it’s better to relax, walk slow, and take smaller steps. (Although when I’m wearing really comfy heels I have the ability to take long sexy model steps and can walk faster than men in tennis shoes. but this technique is advances) You’ll also look super sexy and cool and mysterious, trust me this is science.
3. Rest every 20 minutes or so. Even if your feet aren’t hurting. Obviously if you’re busy this is hard. This is just something people recommend we do when wearing heels.
4. Carry a pair of emergency flats. When I but heels I also buy a matching pair of flats, just in case, and so I’m not stuck wearing shoes that dont match my outfit because my heel game is off point that day. (it happens. sometimes you just don’t wanna wear them.)
5. Be confident. Stand up straight, strut your stuff, smile, or put on a sexy bitch face whatever it takes but I can tell you I feel best in heels when I’m 100% confident and feeling on my game.
Repairing the Damage
Wearing heels takes it’s toll but you can fix it!
Exercise your feet.
- Pick something in the room and point at it for 10 seconds with your toes. Switch feet. Do it again. I do this while at my desk, or watching netflix or anything mindless.
- Trace the alphabet with your toes. This also helps if you have shin problems. (the military makes me run and stationed me in a place with hella hills to walk up and down, which gave me shin splints which get agitated by heels sometimes)
- Spread your toes, hold, release. Also I do this while doing mindless things. I’m doing it while writing this post.
- Walk in sand. One day at the beach, walking around does wonders. Your feet will feel muscle sore after.
- Stretch your Achilles Heel. This can shorten from wearing heels so do some downward facing dogs.
- Balance exercises, Stand on one foot and balance as long as you can. Switch feet. You’ll feel it working, trust me.
- Massage your feet when you’re chillin. You don’t have to be a pro, just rub ‘em
- When at home, walk barefoot as much as you can. Being barefoot is natural too us, and kind of “resets” (???) our feet after a long day of wearing shoes. I wouldn’t do it outside though, that’s kinda nasty.